My mother-in-law gave me and her son a beautiful teacup and saucer with a plant arrangement inside it. Eventually the plants died back and I took the arrangement apart, tape from the saucer to hold the cup in place, dead flowers and leaves, a green flower-arranging sponge in the cup’s bottom. This left the saucer empty. Empty is how I felt because the gift was in sympathy. We had lost a pregnancy.
I think of this teacup and saucer
sometimes. The cup was beautiful, with
flowers painted on its sides. I seem to
remember a decorative silver rim around the saucer and the cup but I can never
be sure.
I asked my husband if I could throw
it away because it made me sad to look at it.
He did not hesitate to agree.
Years later I began my own business
and I sold gift certificates as part of it.
For no extra charge I would put something extra in the packaging. One of the first times I did this it was with
teacups and saucers, found at thrift stores and yard sales. I preferred ones with flowers on them and
rims of silver.
Reflective questions:
1. Is there an object that
pulls at your heartstrings?
2. What does God* want you to
know about this (ask directly, God what do you want me know)?
* I use the term God as a universal
term. You may decide that Great Spirit, Allah, Higher Power, etc. better
suits you for today. It is not for me to decide.
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